Decisions...

Every day of every minute, we all are faced with decisions in our lives, it can range from insignificant decisions like what colour top to wear to what we do with our lives. With those decisions comes its pros and cons but..... some of the decision we chose to make are sometimes faced with a reality of this world. my decisions in my life are always pro-longed cause each decision has its outcomes and each outcome its consequence. why do we strive to do better in life? why is it we try so hard to get what we want? but yet we try so hard but we always one step behind our accomplishments.... because its a decision we make. This world is a cut throat world if your not one step ahead of everyone your neck is on the line, this has to go with everything, from relationships to your job, if your not one step ahead of the guy next to u, hes going to stab u! sometimes we make decisions in our lives that effect the people around us.. should we really care for the people around us or face reality in life and only make decisions that are good for us, and what happens on the other side of the fence is their problem. one of the most significant decisions in life are made with our partner or the person we choose to be with... why do they choose to be with u... what reason do they have to love u..spend time with u, care for u or even look at u. Some people, love the attention they get when they are with someone, they get their thrill at another persons expense and leave them with the job of picking up the pieces, or we actually find someone that cares for us but we just don't feel the same anymore, why is that, why do we take other peoples feelings for granted, is it because, we know as humans we can always achieve better, or is it cause we just cant be happy with what we have. there is a saying "misery loves company" is that true or is it just normal human dependency that we always need someone to help us or be with us in our time of need, someone that we can reach out to that is our same level or situation as us, humans are social animals, we live in large societies that comprise of larger groups or ethic back ground, we are bound to where we are from and what runs through our vains, certain decisions are made for us through fate.... some people say our future is already written in the stars.... other make their own.. what would u do leave it up to fate or make your own path in life by being head strong. why? do we do things? humans are creatures like no other uniques in every kind, cause only we can betray our brothers and sisters, we are the one with freedom to choose and decide on our path.